Like my ever growing college debt
Still
I RISE
AHHHHHHH dwediewjdiwejdwejdew
*dead* I hate Maria’s ass…..
Like my ever growing college debt
Still
I RISE
AHHHHHHH dwediewjdiwejdwejdew
*dead* I hate Maria’s ass…..
A fellow black girl asked me how I stay happy and affirmed as an aware and conscious black girl in spite of being inundated by racism and sexism and particularly people who perpetuate these -isms and deny it and call you an “angry black woman” if you point it out.
For me, it’s been a process. I feel like I’ve arrived at a sort of place of zen. I am capable of both recognizing and responding to ignorance without letting it negatively impact my day. I used to be a lot angrier and unhappy than I am now. Especially, when I first started to learn about black feminist theory.
It was like all of a sudden words were being put to all of the things that had bothered me throughout my life. And it was overwhelming to come into that much knowledge. But now that I’ve had a couple years to let it process, I know how to take that knowledge and be empowered and happy with it.
I’ve learned #1) to create boundaries. I can honestly say that there are no oppressive people who have any significant roles in my life. It’s one thing to deal with people in passing who are oppressive, but for me it’s a relief to know that I’m not around those people in any serious manner. So in the end they don’t really matter.
#2) I’ve learned that I can’t educate people into being anti-oppression. I used to think that the main reason why racism and sexism exists on an individual level is because people were taught by the media, by society, to be these things. And that all they needed was a little knowledge about the truth and they’d become allies. You can say this sounds pessimistic. But it’s being a realist. People are invested in being oppressive. If they weren’t, they’d come to be an ally on their own without anybody’s help due to the existence of BOOKS, ARTICLES, GOOGLE, and numerous other resources.
For me, realizing this has actually been very liberating. I used to want to tone police myself and try to live elucidating on what racism is and what sexism is. And that’s pointless. And it’s unhealthy. Now I live life not worrying about the white or male gaze and I’m more interested in learning about what is liberating to me as a black girl.
#3) Honestly, it just takes time to figure out what works for you. What works for me is using Tumblr Savior and blacklisting white people/ white women/ white men/ white feminism because it steals my joy to see ignorance on my dash. What works for me is not seriously responding to deliberate ignorance. But everybody is unique and different. And it takes knowing what does NOT work for you, to know what does. Tumblr teaches you that real fast.
#4) Other than that, I’d say the end goal is to be an empowered black girl who is self-affirmed and grounded in her truths. And knowing that although they may try, other folks can’t take that away from you. Their misnamings of “angry” or “irrational” or “bitter” cannot take away from the truth and that in the end they are the ones who are wallowing in the excrement of being ignorant, oppressive, and just ugly in the spirit.
It should make you feel happy and blessed to know you’re not in the same group with them.
Thanks to @onlylovecanremain for asking me the question. It was nice to seriously think about this. :)
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we dont speak about pain because thats not what any wants to hear.
they want machismo. they want sports. they want fatherhood. they want bills paid..they want strength where there isnt any.
when a black boy stares at the ground something GOT em! some emotion done come and grabbed hold of him..
“whats wrong?” they ask.
Like he would tell them, everybody betrays their trust..everybody forsakes them. Crushed little black boys cant dance. cant swim. cant play..so they rob and steal. they sit on buses glancing out the window trying to keep pain down..
crushed little black boys DONT NEED FATHERS! THEY NEED LOVE, HUGS KISSES. REMINDERS THAT THEIR SELF WORTH AINT NOWHERE NEAR THEIR GENITALS.THEY NEED ENCOURAGEMENT. THEY NEED….THEY ARE NEEDY..
sensitive black boys dont exist because we turn them into monsters and then ask why theyre in pain.
[photo: centered in the photo is a Black woman carrying a child in one arm with her other arm and fist raised. she is in the middle of chanting. there are others around her. a protest sign from the fast food strike in the background reads, “we are worth more. strike for 15. D15”
Fast food strike wave spreads to Detroit, St. Louis
May 10, 2013St. Louis, and last month’s in New York and Chicago, today’s work stoppage is backed by a local coalition including the Service Employees International Union, and the participants are demanding a raise to $15 an hour and the chance to form a union without intimidation.
Organizers say that over a hundred workers joined the St. Louis strike between Wednesday and Thursday. That included a group of Jimmy John’s workers who alleged that management humiliated them by requiring them to hold up signs in public with messages including “I made 3 wrong sandwiches today” and “I was more than 13 seconds in the drive thru.”
“Sometimes I walk for more than an hour just to save my train fare so I can spend it on Ramen noodles,” St. Louis Chipotle worker Patrick Leeper said in an e-mailed statement Thursday. “I can’t even think about groceries.”
A spokesperson for Jimmy John’s declined to comment on Thursday’s strike; McDonald’s and Wendy’s did not respond to inquiries last night.
As I’ve written elsewhere, the fate of the fast food strike wave carries far-reaching implications: Fast food jobs are a growing portion of our economy, and fast food-like conditions are proliferating in other sectors as well. Organizers say the fast food industry now employs twice as many Detroit-area workers as the city’s iconic auto industry. These strikes also come at a moment of existential crisis for the labor movement, a sobering reality that was brought into sharp relief in December when Michigan, arguably the birthplace of modern US private sector unionism, became the country’s latest “Right to Work” state.
Along with a shared significant supporter—SEIU—the campaigns in New York, Chicago, St. Louis and Detroit have apparent strategies in common. Rather than waiting until they’ve built support from a majority of a store’s or company’s workers, they stage actions by a minority of the workforce designed to inspire their co-workers. Rather than publicly identifying the campaign and its organizers with a single international union, these union-funded efforts turn to allied community groups to spearhead organizing. Rather than training all their resources on a single company, they organize against all of the industry’s players at once. And—faced with legal and economic assaults that have weakened the strike weapon—these campaigns mount one-day work stoppages that are carefully tailored to maximize attention and minimize, but not eliminate, the risk that workers will lose their jobs.
Whether these strategies can ever compel a fast food giant to negotiate with its employees remains to be seen.
“After what I would consider well over three decades of wage suppression, workers in this particular industry—and then I think it’ll go to others—are realizing that their only way up the wage ladder is through their own organizations,” CUNY labor studies lecturer Ed Ott said Wednesday. Ott, a board member of the community organizing group that spearheaded the New York fast food strike, added, “The only way these workers are going to be able to advance these jobs is through unionization. And I think that idea has finally gotten traction.”
Update (9:15 AM Friday): According to the campaign, a walkout by twenty workers at Detroit’s 10400 Gratiot Avenue McDonald’s prevented the store from operating. Some workers brought in as strikebreakers to replace those striking workers chose to join the strike instead.
Organizers say that by day’s end, today’s strike could be the largest fast food work stoppage yet, topping last month’s 400-strong strike in New York.
#LHHATL, S02E09: Mimi, what were you doing?
Mimi said, ”People know me for my cleaning business…” No, they don’t. People know you as that chick that looked stupid, crying over Stevie J, after 15 years of nonsense. And what is this “Fashion Brand” with MADE?
Who’s the target audience? Because we don’t know anybody who wants their clothes to be associated with house cleaning products. Can you imagine this conversation?
Woman #1: ”Gurl, that is cuh-yoot. Who are you wearing?”
Woman #2: ”Gurl, this is MADE. You know. As in the chick that’s dusting and whatnot.”
See how that goes? It doesn’t work. Mimi, you need a new brand. Because no woman wants to get dressed up, and still be affiliated with a vacuum cleaner. —SistaMaryFabulous, WatchColorTV